25句读起来会心痛的伤感爱情语录
1、 我们可以忘记这世间一切,可爱情却是例外的。
2、 因为爱情常常是不可预知的,所以它的消逝很多时候也往往不以我们的意志为转移,如果确曾深爱过,则爱就永远不会被我们忘记。
3、 拒绝和被拒绝的感觉是一样的。无论爱与不爱,无论谁负了谁,分别总是那样的凄凉,只有泪水是属于自己的,对方永远也看不到
4、 所谓恋爱,只要是参加了就是有意义的,即使是没有结局。当你喜欢上一个人的那一刹,是永远都不会消息的。这都将会变成你活下去的勇气。而且会变成你在黑暗中的一线曙光
5、 人,当真正站在自己心爱的对象面前时,又是多么脆弱。当一颗心全给他/她时,自己便失去了所有的保护。这时才需要一点点伪装,一点点掩护,一点点骄傲,以免在对方未卸下的硬壳前碰得鲜血淋漓。
6、 男人只会在意女人哭泣的泪脸,却从未刻意地仔细想过,女人若是拼命地疯狂地笑,其实只是在掩饰她无尽的悲伤。因为她知道,若她停止微笑的话,便会哭泣,但她实在不愿让他看到她的软弱与无助。所以她只能继续地笑下去。
7、 流星是美的,多希望它能永驻心底,流星的意义在于转瞬即逝,流星的美它也只源于刹那间,流星毕竟是流星,若追寻长久只能等待属于自己的恒星,死死地抓住这瞬间的美,痛苦的只是自己
8、 我们爱一个人就等于将自己的心灵与对方做了一次交换,即使有,一方后来反悔了,想再次收回,却已是不可能的事了
9、 在青春时代的每一天里,我们都可以感受到爱情波澜的冲击,尽管这种冲击并不一定使我们走向目的地,但我们也没有理由不珍惜
10、 只要是真正地彼此倾心过,爱过,这就足够了,我不奢望太多
11、 有一些事情,一些人,使我们在独自一人的时候,会无声感伤,却没有任何悔改。有一些事情,一些人,提醒我们曾经照耀彼此眼目,粉身碎骨般剧烈,并依旧在念想。
12、 有些人是突然就会消失的,而有些人,一辈子都会被囚禁在一个狭小的地方。
13、 在来来去去中看到自己的眼泪,看透别人的心,只有离别,才知道是否真的爱过,拥有过
14、 很多时候,我们爱着,只是自己一个人的事情。那些爱情,拼命却没有回应。也许我们爱上的只是爱情本身。所有的哀伤,最终都不过是自怜的影子。
15、 生命会在某个时刻召唤我们,而我们唯一可以做的,是回应这种召唤。
16、 原来,成全别人,是要有一点痛苦的。
17、 爱一个人,与其为他的幸福而放弃他,不如留住他,为他的幸福而努力。
18、 太多太多的不明白造成太多太多的纠结与遗憾。
19、 爱你,却说不出口,想你,却是独自心痛,念你,却只能寄语风中,梦你,却寻不回你的影子,等你,却不敢面对你的眼睛。
20、 爱情无需刻意去把握,越是想抓牢自己的爱情,反而越容易失去自我,失去原则,失去彼此之间应该保持的宽容和谅解,爱情也会因此变成毫无美感的形式。
21、 上帝安排恋人相爱的时候,也让相聚与分离降临到他们头上,前者故然是恋人们所喜爱所渴望的,而后者则带给恋人无限的伤感,但是有一点上帝怕也无能为力,那就是,他可以让恋人们身各一方,但他们的心却是永远相聚。
22、 即使相逢真的不再可能,爱情仍然是爱情。
23、 悲痛使人们的心贴近了,世俗的欢乐无法使之分离。心中忧愁的纽带要比喜悦的纽带更牢固,用眼泪洗濯过的爱情,始终是纯洁,美丽和永存的
24、 在别人身上寻找温暖,是注定要失望的。
25、 有些人很好,你很想爱上他,但就是做不到。有些人没那么好,可你就是没法不爱他。
Thursday, June 19, 2014
内向的人
内向的人喜欢回忆,喜欢幻想,喜欢独自拄腮思索。喜欢专注的做听者。
内向的人不愿意有求于人,宁愿自己走些弯路,也不愿主动请他人帮忙。
内向的人不善言辞,常烦恼于如何交际。
内向的人不喜欢先说后做,喜欢用行动来证明自己,取得了优异的成绩也不向别人夸耀,喜欢让别人说自己如何谦虚。
内向的人容易自卑,很容易忽视了自己的优点,而太在乎自己的缺点。
内向的人是个完美主义者,希望一切尽善尽美。
内向的人很羞涩,在感情表达中处于劣势,喜欢在恋爱中处于被动的地位,享受被爱的感觉与甜蜜。
内向的人受伤时喜欢躲在一个角落偷偷哭泣。所有的委屈痛苦都让自己的泪水去冲洗。
内向的人朋友很少,但都是知心的,交往中总是恨不得把心掏给对方,丝毫没有虚情假意。
内向的人很执着,喜欢把爱深埋在心底。
内向的人很专注,喜欢长时间从事一件自己感兴趣的事,甚至忘记了自己的寝食。
内向的人很在乎别人的看法,遇事总是犹豫不决,拿不定主意,有时为了迎合别人甚至失去自己。
内向的人爱幻想,喜欢过恬静而悠闲的生活,总是向往古人世外桃源般的生活。
内向的人心里不见得话比你少,、只是他们不爱多说话,反而喜欢思考。生活中的琐事当大家聊得热火朝天时,内向的人也许比你知道的还多,但是他们不想谈这些,因为好多大家聊的话题大家都知道,“何必再说呢?”,这是内向人的想法。他们倒喜欢和别人聊一聊生疏的话题,比如对方不了解的事情,或者愿意听听他们不知道的事情。
内向的人有的不爱打招呼,其实他在心里已经和你打过招呼,你只要注意他的眼神就可以发现。他不是要说一句“你好”或者“吃了吗”才算打招呼,他有他的方式:微笑,点头,眼睛注视你。
人们大多对人不一样的标准,对外向的人话就多,对内向的人干脆不说话。相反,内向的人对人是平等的标准,他对谁都是要么说话要么不说话。
你要知道一个也许很奇怪的逻辑:“不是内向的人不和你说话,而是你不和他说话。”
一个外向的人会在平时与大家打成一片,但当大事发生时,很可能躲的远远的;而一个另类的内向人,他虽然平时很少和大家接触,但有原则性的问题或发生大事,他却突然站出来帮助你,是很奇怪、另类,不是吗?好多电影里也反映了这样的人,他们除了性格与众不同外,其他没有什么不一样,很可能比你还要善良、多情。是你用一种异样的眼光在看他们。
内向的人不愿意有求于人,宁愿自己走些弯路,也不愿主动请他人帮忙。
内向的人不善言辞,常烦恼于如何交际。
内向的人不喜欢先说后做,喜欢用行动来证明自己,取得了优异的成绩也不向别人夸耀,喜欢让别人说自己如何谦虚。
内向的人容易自卑,很容易忽视了自己的优点,而太在乎自己的缺点。
内向的人是个完美主义者,希望一切尽善尽美。
内向的人很羞涩,在感情表达中处于劣势,喜欢在恋爱中处于被动的地位,享受被爱的感觉与甜蜜。
内向的人受伤时喜欢躲在一个角落偷偷哭泣。所有的委屈痛苦都让自己的泪水去冲洗。
内向的人朋友很少,但都是知心的,交往中总是恨不得把心掏给对方,丝毫没有虚情假意。
内向的人很执着,喜欢把爱深埋在心底。
内向的人很专注,喜欢长时间从事一件自己感兴趣的事,甚至忘记了自己的寝食。
内向的人很在乎别人的看法,遇事总是犹豫不决,拿不定主意,有时为了迎合别人甚至失去自己。
内向的人爱幻想,喜欢过恬静而悠闲的生活,总是向往古人世外桃源般的生活。
内向的人心里不见得话比你少,、只是他们不爱多说话,反而喜欢思考。生活中的琐事当大家聊得热火朝天时,内向的人也许比你知道的还多,但是他们不想谈这些,因为好多大家聊的话题大家都知道,“何必再说呢?”,这是内向人的想法。他们倒喜欢和别人聊一聊生疏的话题,比如对方不了解的事情,或者愿意听听他们不知道的事情。
内向的人有的不爱打招呼,其实他在心里已经和你打过招呼,你只要注意他的眼神就可以发现。他不是要说一句“你好”或者“吃了吗”才算打招呼,他有他的方式:微笑,点头,眼睛注视你。
人们大多对人不一样的标准,对外向的人话就多,对内向的人干脆不说话。相反,内向的人对人是平等的标准,他对谁都是要么说话要么不说话。
你要知道一个也许很奇怪的逻辑:“不是内向的人不和你说话,而是你不和他说话。”
一个外向的人会在平时与大家打成一片,但当大事发生时,很可能躲的远远的;而一个另类的内向人,他虽然平时很少和大家接触,但有原则性的问题或发生大事,他却突然站出来帮助你,是很奇怪、另类,不是吗?好多电影里也反映了这样的人,他们除了性格与众不同外,其他没有什么不一样,很可能比你还要善良、多情。是你用一种异样的眼光在看他们。
Wednesday, June 18, 2014
"恋爱"真的那么好?
(一)"喜欢上一个人是什么感觉?" "最原始的感觉大概是觉得自己配不上他…"
(二)爱情就好比旋转木马,明明只有一步之遥,却只能注视着他,而碰不到他...
(三)男追女,隔层山,女追男,隔层纱...可是又有多少女人鼓起勇气去追,又有多少女人失败呢?
(四)真心等你的人,他总会真心等下去,不愿意等你的人,总是一转身就牵了别人的手。所以,真正的人会来的,不要着急,要有信念,属于你的爱情一定会来!
(五)爱不仅仅是爱,爱是热情、是情感、是交流、是欣赏、是奉献、是信任、是诚实、是忠诚。
(十一)如果爱上一个人,请不要炫耀,也不要宣扬,只管安安静静的去爱。因为恋爱是自己的事情,别人不可能懂你的感情,也不可能感同身受你的悸动。千万不要因为虚荣心而炫耀。晒恩爱的结局往往都不太好。其实最好的爱情,无非是几十年风轻云淡的在一起。时间是爱情最好的证明。
(十二)遇到对的人是什么感觉?你不需要耍任何心机和手段,不用去想怎么留住他的心、他的胃,他就是不会走。
(二)爱情就好比旋转木马,明明只有一步之遥,却只能注视着他,而碰不到他...
(三)男追女,隔层山,女追男,隔层纱...可是又有多少女人鼓起勇气去追,又有多少女人失败呢?
(四)真心等你的人,他总会真心等下去,不愿意等你的人,总是一转身就牵了别人的手。所以,真正的人会来的,不要着急,要有信念,属于你的爱情一定会来!
(五)爱不仅仅是爱,爱是热情、是情感、是交流、是欣赏、是奉献、是信任、是诚实、是忠诚。
(六)思想到行动距离 就像舌头到鼻子的距离一样 很近又很远。
(七)★爱情就像一只蝴蝶,它喜欢飞到哪里,就把欢乐带到哪里。 Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.
(八)时间几乎会愈合所有事情,所以给时间一点时间,让过去的过去,让开始的开始!
(九)女朋友生气要哄她,男朋友生气要忍他;
女朋友吃醋要抱她,男朋友吃醋要吻他;
女朋友哭了要逗她,男朋友哭了要陪他;
女朋友累了要背她,男朋友累了要扶他;
女朋友错了要原谅,男朋友错了要体谅;
女朋友生日要记得,男朋友生日要懂得。
男女由陌生到相逢相识相恋相爱,
只因爱和尊重是相互相依相偎。
(十)不要让别人的想法决定你的人生。你才是这个世界的主宰,靠山山倒,靠水水流,依靠任何人都是一种痴心妄想。你的梦想和幸福就在你自己手里握着,你的精彩人生也只有靠你自己去创造。
(十一)如果爱上一个人,请不要炫耀,也不要宣扬,只管安安静静的去爱。因为恋爱是自己的事情,别人不可能懂你的感情,也不可能感同身受你的悸动。千万不要因为虚荣心而炫耀。晒恩爱的结局往往都不太好。其实最好的爱情,无非是几十年风轻云淡的在一起。时间是爱情最好的证明。
(十二)遇到对的人是什么感觉?你不需要耍任何心机和手段,不用去想怎么留住他的心、他的胃,他就是不会走。
(十三)其时,我很累了,
我习惯假装坚强,
习惯了一个人面对所有,
我不知道自己到底想怎么样。
有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话,
可以很放肆的,
可是却没有人知道,
那不过是伪装,很刻意的伪装;
我可以让自己很快乐很快乐,
可是却找不到快乐的源头,只是傻笑。
摘自于《"恋爱"真的那么好?》
Running? How to Run?
I have been running since very young age, but did anybody teach me the correct way to run? I wonder, so I begun to search "How to Run?". LOL.
Train Journey
Wish you all a very long, safe, pleasant and happy ride.Analyse each statement and judge for yourself the simple truth in it.Ask yourself at wich station of Life are you right now?Are we soaring or plain cruising?None of us asked to be born.Its our parents who bought us the tickets and we just have to continue the journey.Enjoy Life while the going is goodA ride in life.This is a very meaningful one .....
Life is like a journey on a train...
with it's stations...
with changes of routes...
and with accidents !
We board this train when we are born and our parents are the ones who get our ticket.
We believe they will always travel on this train with us.
However, at some station our parents will get off the train, leaving us alone on this journey.
As time goes by, other passengers will board the train, many of whom will be significant - our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of our life.
Many will get off during the journey and leave a permanent vacuum in our lives.
Many will go so unnoticed that we won't even know when they vacated their seats and got off the train!
This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, good-byes, and farewells.
A good journey is helping, loving, having a good relationship with all co passengers...
and making sure that we give our best to make their journey comfortable.
The mystery of this fabulous journey is;
We do not know at which station we ourselves are going to get off.
So, we must live in the best way - adjust, forget, forgive, and offer the best of what we have.
It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to leave our seat... we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.
Thank you for being one of the passengers on my train !
Have a very pleasant journey of life.....!
Our Life Today
Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - a well-known comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent and profound ... and so very appropriate.
A Message by George Carlin:
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families,more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense,more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems,more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much,
smoke too much,
spend too recklessly,
laugh too little,
drive too fast,
get too angry,
stay up too late,
get up too tired,
read too little,
watch TV too much,
and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've added years to life not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave you
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. If you don't share this with anyone....Who cares?
George Carlin
A Message by George Carlin:
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families,more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense,more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems,more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much,
smoke too much,
spend too recklessly,
laugh too little,
drive too fast,
get too angry,
stay up too late,
get up too tired,
read too little,
watch TV too much,
and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've added years to life not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave you
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. If you don't share this with anyone....Who cares?
George Carlin
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